Chris Brown Arrested After Alleged Rihanna Assault

[Rashad]

Grammy day was supposed to be a glittery affair for R&B's reigning It couple, Chris Brown and Rihanna. But things went horribly amiss.
About the time Brown was scheduled to be singing "Forever" onstage at Los Angeles' Staples Center, he was instead detained by police, being questioned for allegedly roughing up Rihanna.

Brown, 19, turned himself in at the Wilshire station around 6:30 p.m. and was booked on suspicion of making criminal threats. The case will now be sent to the district attorney's office and further charges could be filed. He was released from jail after posting $50,000 bail.

Sources tell E! News that the alleged victim was Rihanna, 20, and that she suffered visible bruises on her face during an altercation that took place hours earlier. Both in turn balked on scheduled Grammy performances.
A spokeswoman for Brown's label declined comment. Rihanna's publicist, Amanda Silverman, would only tell E! News that the 20-year-old "Disturbia" singer was involved in an unspecified traffic mishap. "Rihanna is well," the rep said. "Thank you for concern and support."

Per department policy, police declined to identify the alleged victim in the incident, which occurred about 12:30 a.m. in the Hancock Park area, apparently as the two were heading home from Clive Davis' annual pre-Grammy bash, where they had been all smiles.


http://www.eonline.com/uberblog/b99069_chris_brown_arrested_after_alleged.html

[rell]

a statement ur gonna hear ALOT this week, "chris brown? he doesnt even seem like that type of guy"

:no:

[Rambo]

wow.

[South3rnSwagg]

Damn Breezy than caught a case.

[coyoteblack]

He is only human....

[Razor_Reigns]

Hell naw, Lil nigg@ said he don't give a fuck how many records he's sold, he'll still blast a chick grill for disrespectin :laugh:

[Soul]

You know she's a light-bright so it doesn't take much leave marks.

He probably grabbed her face and said "You better stop fucking with me!".

[SmackDaddy]

a statement ur gonna hear ALOT this week, "chris brown? he doesnt even seem like that type of guy"

:no:

Heard it about 5 times already.

[Queeny]

call me what you like but i find this SO humorous!

........ yet pathetic .........

[Kojain]

a statement ur gonna hear ALOT this week, "chris brown? he doesnt even seem like that type of guy"

:no:

Hell, anyone can snap. Being a Singer doesn't mean jack.

[Tthagreat]

chris wasn't taking any of that mess

[ja_shotta]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=envYjehnvLg
(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=envYjehnvLg)








:paper:







for real though , the truth will come to light in time . If he really did hit her then that was a poor decision .

[Keels]

they saying she gave him herpes
and he zapped because of it

but who the hell knows or cares

end of the day

they still rich

he still gone get hoes

and after the shit heals

she still gone get *****s

unless that herpes shit is true

then she should just invest in a good dildo lol

[TeddyKGB]

ain't that a bitch... punk ass Chris Brown stomping out little Rihanna ala Ike Turner style.:no:

http://i43.tinypic.com/n1dkwj.jpg

[Soul]

they saying she gave him herpes
and he zapped because of it

DAMN!

[®eese]

ain't that a bitch... punk ass Chris Brown stomping out little Rihanna ala Ike Turner style.:no:

http://i43.tinypic.com/n1dkwj.jpg
:lmao:

[Hanzo]

they saying she gave him herpes
and he zapped because of it

but who the hell knows or cares

end of the day

they still rich

he still gone get hoes

and after the shit heals

she still gone get *****s

unless that herpes shit is true

then she should just invest in a good dildo lol

Exaaaaaaaaaaaactly. Spoken like a true DMV representative!

Dawg! If you the f-in' Pope,then a chick burn you... necessary measures need apply. Ah'mean, fu¢k all the bull.

[llogic]

One of the two will probably have a new single coming out in another month about this.

[Mike82]

Fuck Chris Brown. Real men don't hit women. I don't care if she got him burned. That's his own damn fault.

[Soul]

Real men don't hit women.

You mean to tell me that there's nothing a woman could do
that'll make you hit her?

What if a chick kicked you in the balls, put you in a thai clinch
and kneed you in the face while you were bent over in pain?

If you say you'd walk away, I'm calling bullshit.

Wrigley suspends endorsement deal
"We have made the decision to suspend the current advertising featuring Brown and any related marketing communications until the matter is resolved� Wrigley said in a statement.

[WhiteGtz]

You mean to tell me that there's nothing a woman could do
that'll make you hit her?

What if a chick kicked you in the balls, put you in a thai clinch
and kneed you in the face while you were bent over in pain?

If you say you'd walk away, I'm calling bullshit.




Real Talk.

[DontKnowMe]

You mean to tell me that there's nothing a woman could do
that'll make you hit her?

What if a chick kicked you in the balls, put you in a thai clinch
and kneed you in the face while you were bent over in pain?

If you say you'd walk away, I'm calling bullshit.

Wrigley suspends endorsement deal

I won't hit a woman, but I'll shake the shit out of one.

[XMMan 2.0]

I dont care what a chick does to make me mad at her...if im makin millions of dollars and sellin Cd's and have commercials and have a huge female fan base...aint no way in hell imma put my hands on somebody and fuck up my money for doin.

im just buggin over him losin all his money cuz his girlfriend pissed him off.

dudes career is maaad fucked up now cuz he got outta pocket. it aint even about rihanna its about hsi career...he fucked it all up by doin that

[Rashad]

Rihanna cooperating with police in assault investigations
6:33 PM, February 9, 2009

R&B star Rihanna is cooperating with investigators building a domestic violence case against her boyfriend, the singer Chris Brown, a police source said today.

The source said the 20-year-old performer, whose full name is Robyn Rihanna Fenty, is providing “ongoing” cooperation with detectives who booked Brown on Sunday on suspicion of making criminal threats against her.

An early-morning altercation with Brown following a pre-Grammy Awards party left Rihanna with bruises and a scratch to her face, according to police sources. Her injuries were treated at a “major medical facility,” a police source said.

Brown, a 19-year-old with a double-platinum record and dance moves frequently compared to those of Michael Jackson, had fled before officers arrived, police said.

He remained free on $50,000 bail, but neither he nor his attorney would speak about allegations that rocked the Grammys ceremony. Both Brown and Rihanna were nominated, but neither attended the ceremony.

The fight occurred after midnight on a quiet block in Hancock Park, where Brown had stopped a rented Lamborghini he was driving. According to police, several people saw or heard a loud, violent confrontation. The luxury car was impounded because the alleged assault may have begun in the vehicle, a police source said.

--Richard Winton

http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/lanow/2009/02/rihanna-coopera.html

[Rashad]

His world may be in upheaval, but Chris Brown is holed up in a Hollywood hotel, keeping quiet.

While information continues to trickle out about what was apparently an ugly dispute between the R&B star and his girlfriend, Rihanna, one of his major sponsors, gum maker Wrigley, is distancing itself from the 19-year-old "Forever" singer.

According to a source close to the investigation, Rihanna made the 911 call to police after Brown "fled on foot" from the scene following the attack. Two officers from the LAPD Wilshire Division found Rihanna in Brown's rented silver Lamborghini "beaten really badly and hysterical."

Brown had taken the keys to the car with him and Rihanna was basically left on the side of the road with the car.

"Rihanna didn't want anyone to touch her, she was in so much pain," the source says.
Rihanna, whose full name is Robyn Rihanna Fenty, had visible bruising and scrapes on her face and what appeared to be bite marks on her body. Officers took her to the emergency room at Cedars-Sinai Medical Center for treatment.

A member of Rihanna's inner circle tells E! News her family is making plans to get her out of L.A.: "They want to get her back to Barbados. They want to keep her away from Chris right now."


http://www.eonline.com/uberblog/b99169_chris_brown_lowdown_cops_continue_probe.htm l

[TJ870]

he done gone and messed up everything. everything??? everything :busted:

btw: i just saw that dubblemint commercial and instead of pulling it they shouldve just never made it

[Kojain]

Damn! His career is now over with. No one is going to do an endorsement deal with him after this. That is, of course, if it's true.

[Chocolate Boy aka Swizz]

why are you all acting like your not media savvy smart peoples on this forum i'll tell you whats going to happen..

1) pictures of rihanna's injuries will hit the net and magazines

2) women will for a little while boycott chris brown

3) rihanna will do her first televised interview on maybe MTV or oprah either way she stands to make some nice change from it meanwhile chris brown will stay hiding until....

4) after rihanna's interview comes out brown will do his own interview and of course other women who claimed to be hit by brown in the past will suddenly come out

5) pictures will leak of chris and rihanna at a cafe or something like that which will outrage women and ask her what shes doing

6) of course one of them will release a slow apologetic type song more likely brown but could be rihanna

7) they'll get back together and everyone is making money and everyone is happy again


in this media controlled world i wouldnt be surprised if that all happens

[Layde Unek]

why are you all acting like your not media savvy smart peoples on this forum i'll tell you whats going to happen..

1) pictures of rihanna's injuries will hit the net and magazines

2) women will for a little while boycott chris brown

3) rihanna will do her first televised interview on maybe MTV or oprah either way she stands to make some nice change from it meanwhile chris brown will stay hiding until....

4) after rihanna's interview comes out brown will do his own interview and of course other women who claimed to be hit by brown in the past will suddenly come out

5) pictures will leak of chris and rihanna at a cafe or something like that which will outrage women and ask her what shes doing

6) of course one of them will release a slow apologetic type song more likely brown but could be rihanna

7) they'll get back together and everyone is making money and everyone is happy again


in this media controlled world i wouldnt be surprised if that all happens

Sounds about right.

[Hour Of Chaos]

http://i76.photobucket.com/albums/j23/HR_Paperstax/Misc_Pics/rihanna_and_chris_brown_hang_out_in.jpg

[123]

I don't have any jokes for this, it ain't funny...

I just hope Rihanna's okay...

[Chocolate Boy aka Swizz]

http://i76.photobucket.com/albums/j23/HR_Paperstax/Misc_Pics/rihanna_and_chris_brown_hang_out_in.jpg

lol lol lol any chappelle's chow reference is a winner in my book well done lol

(Swizz now digs out his DVD.....)

[Rashad]

I don't have any jokes for this, it ain't funny...

I just hope Rihanna's okay...

Co-sign.

[123]

So they're confirming it was actually Rihanna who was attacked..?

http://i76.photobucket.com/albums/j23/HR_Paperstax/Misc_Pics/rihanna_and_chris_brown_hang_out_in.jpg

:no:...that was kinda funny, but I came back to the reality of the issue..

[Deus]

:confused::

I'ma call "SHYT";
if they get back together it will be alright, but hitting on Rihanna (and fucking running away afterwards :no:) is 100x worse than Eric Benet cheating on Halle Berry (which is mad-d-d insane to me, I mean I understand somewhat but that was mf-ing Halle Berry ya dumb nucca) and he ain't really recover after all that sheistness.
I mean I'm like ya'll, I ain't tripping he hit her (iAin't trippin' too much) but to me running away afterwards...if that was my best dawg I'd have trouble talking to dude after that.
:banghead:REALLY THO HOW THE FUCK DO YOU RUN AWAY?!!!?!!!?!!!:banghead:
even if she burned the dude; knock a bytch out and stand the fuck over her and then cuss the bytch out as the po put you in the back of the vehicle. Such a scenario I would then congratulate as sum real shyt.:nod:
but this sheistness: BITCH-MADE.

[coyoteblack]

why are you all acting like your not media savvy smart peoples on this forum i'll tell you whats going to happen..

1) pictures of rihanna's injuries will hit the net and magazines

2) women will for a little while boycott chris brown

3) rihanna will do her first televised interview on maybe MTV or oprah either way she stands to make some nice change from it meanwhile chris brown will stay hiding until....

4) after rihanna's interview comes out brown will do his own interview and of course other women who claimed to be hit by brown in the past will suddenly come out

5) pictures will leak of chris and rihanna at a cafe or something like that which will outrage women and ask her what shes doing

6) of course one of them will release a slow apologetic type song more likely brown but could be rihanna

7) they'll get back together and everyone is making money and everyone is happy again


in this media controlled world i wouldnt be surprised if that all happens That's workable ...... might need to hire you for p.r. work........:nod:

[DontKnowMe]

they need to lock him up with the tossed salad man and the booty warrior

[Rambo]

I won't hit a woman, but I'll shake the shit out of one.
:lol: one of my fav kanye lines...

[Chocolate Boy aka Swizz]

That's workable ...... might need to hire you for p.r. work........:nod:

well doing a media degree at university and working in the radio industry like i am now has opened my eyes to the world of public relations

also can i say i dont condone chris brown beating up rihanna at all incase people may think that for the quote i did on the pic previously in this thread.
I wasnt laughing at the situation i was laughing at the chappelle show line

[Queeny]

wrigleys kicked him to the curb now cus of this ahahha aw man this shit is ridiculous. i dunno WHAT he was thinking.

[Deus]

:lol: one of my fav kanye lines...

1st.Chris Rock
...
...
...
379th. Kanye West

[Mike82]

Wow. He fucked her up bad. That's just shameful.:no:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nKXm67Z9lew

[toa]

Glad to see the forum is full of (potential) woman beaters. Hope your daughters and/or sisters meet men that think beating on a woman is funny and/or justified and/or REAL SHYT. Fucking assholes.

[®eese]

Glad to see the forum is full of (potential) woman beaters. Hope your daughters and/or sisters meet men that think beating on a woman is funny and/or justified and/or REAL SHYT. Fucking assholes.
agreed.

[Mike82]

You mean to tell me that there's nothing a woman could do
that'll make you hit her?

What if a chick kicked you in the balls, put you in a thai clinch
and kneed you in the face while you were bent over in pain?

If you say you'd walk away, I'm calling bullshit.

Wrigley suspends endorsement deal

No. I wouldn't hit her. I have the right to defend myself if necessary no matter who is attacking me, but I would never strike a woman but to each their own I guess...

[Mike82]

Glad to see the forum is full of (potential) woman beaters. Hope your daughters and/or sisters meet men that think beating on a woman is funny and/or justified and/or REAL SHYT. Fucking assholes.

CO-SIGN

[DontKnowMe]

[QUOTE=Mike82;158645]Wow. He fucked her up bad. That's just shameful.:no:

What the hell motivated him to do this

[Soul]

I'd rather be an asshole than let some woman
put her hands on me like she crazy. Y'all can
go around with that fairytale bullshit if you want,
but real life has many more gray areas than we'd like
to admit.

I'm not for beating a woman down like she's a dude,
but if she really starts acting a damn fool by kicking
and swinging, I'd damn sure smack her ass back.

[Mike82]

I'd rather be an asshole than let some woman
put her hands on me like she crazy. Y'all can
go around with that fairytale bullshit if you want,
but real life has many more gray areas than we'd like
to admit.

I'm not for beating a woman down like she's a dude,
but if she really starts acting a damn fool by kicking
and swinging, I'd damn sure smack her ass back.

Fairytale bullshit? People make their own realities. I can't speak for you no more than you can for me. Some people just set themselves to different or higher standards.

[Soul]

Fairytale bullshit? People make their own realities. I can't speak for you no more than you can for me. Some people just set themselves to different or higher standards.

To a certain extent, yes, we make our own realities,
but life has a way of not giving two shits about "OUR"
reality. I brought up an extreme circumstance b/c
for a lot men, that's where the "never hit a woman"
flies right out the window.

I don't know if you're an old head or a young dude,
but until you've been tested by a borderline crazy
female with an axe to grind, you really don't know
what you'd do.

That's all I'm trying to get across.

[Mero]

How many guy's in this forum have actually hit a woman in the past? and how many girls have been hit by a guy?

[Rambo]

ive never hit a girl, for fear of the certain death that would come from either her family, or my parents :lol: ... and the shits just wrong... but i agree with soul, when that extreme situation might happen, idk what i'd do.

[Veezal]

I for one believe you shouldn't hit a woman but I had an incident where I threw that thought out the window.

The mother of my son accused me of keeping him "too long" so when I dropped him off at her house of course she s hit talkin, disrespectin me and hitting on me. Enough is enough now so I grabbed her and told her " You really don't want to go there with me now do you." I go to work and get a phone call from her saying she done called the police and about 20 minutes later the Boys In Blue show up to my place of work and arrest ya boy for assault and battery. I spend 27 hours in jail for basically being a father who wants to spend every possible moment I can with him, mind you this is my 1st time ever in jail. Honestly that time in there kept me from doing something real stupid at the time. My point is you never know what you will do unless you are in that situation. If they were regular citizens no one would even care.

[Deus]

I was commenting on something I knew nothing about. I just watched the video detailing the extent of her injuries and Chris Brown is shit for what he did. I understand broken resolves when someone fucks up another's life but this is beyond that....HE BEAT HER.
I apologize for everything I said before.

[uthamanj]

How many guy's in this forum have actually hit a woman in the past?

Any guy who puts his hand on a woman like that is a 1st class wimp !!! :mad:

[Hour Of Chaos]

If there's a reason to hit anyone, there's a reason to hit anyone!

[rell]

Chris Brown lost ALL respect for beatin her down like that. i mean wtf??? she small as hell too, probly had no chance.

and rumors are RUNNIN WILD on this, i done heard everything from "she gave him herpes" (which is obviously BS) to "she always beats on him, and one day she popped him in the balls and he just snapped"
the truth (and the pics) will come out b4 long tho ("classified" info always does lol)

BUT with all that said, as a PERSON u have the right to DEFEND yoself, a woman just as capable as beatin yo ass as any other person in the world. Theres an EXTREMELY fine line between defendin yoself n abuse tho... the man has to try n remove himself, and the woman gotta not provoke n taunt him, it goes both ways and thats just speakin in general, not cb n rhiana situation

and his career isnt over, he gon do the "i was stupid" interview ....he still gon make albums and ppl still gon buy em....n he gon get endorsements again thats the way the america works...

[123]

One thing that's reoccuring in this thread is that it's okay to defend yourself against yourself, and I agree. But the extent Rihanna's injuries sound, I can't picture him having to defend himself to hurt her that much...

I could see her having a scratch or so, but bruises and contusions..???

Yes, there are two sides to the story, so until I hear the full details, I'll reserve judgement, but CB is lookin' at fault here...

Glad to see the forum is full of (potential) woman beaters. Hope your daughters and/or sisters meet men that think beating on a woman is funny and/or justified and/or REAL SHYT. Fucking assholes.

That ain't cool. Even if they're some idiots/ppl you disagreed with, you shouldn't wish ill will on other people they care about...

Not Cool...

they need to lock him up with the tossed salad man and the booty warrior

:lmao: Nobody deserves that...

[rell]

chris brown a "WALKING DEAD MAN" according to JAY-Z's people

NY POST:

Chris Brown's got 99 problems - and Jay-Z's a big one.


The hip-hop powerhouse, who rapped "99 Problems," was enraged when he heard that Brown allegedly beat up Rihanna, the R&B star whom Jay-Z discovered and mentored.

"He hit the roof," a source close to him told Us Weekly. "Chris is a walking dead man. He messed with the wrong crew."


Brown, 19, allegedly left gal pal Rihanna with contusions to her face, a cut lip, bloody nose and bite marks on her arm and fingers following an argument the night before both were to perform at the Grammys.


Residents called 911 after hearing her screams, and police said Rihanna's shrieks could be heard in the background.


"It mostly recorded the sound of a screaming woman," LAPD Detective Deshon Andrews said.


The couple had hit a rough patch in their year long romance, according to MTV, and blog rumors swirling around the pair - including offhand re marks about infidelity and fights - didn't help.


The LA blowup fol lowed an evening of escalating tension be tween the two, which came to a head as they drove in a Lamborghini from a party at music mogul Clive Davis' house early Sunday and she tossed the car keys out the window, E! News reported.


"He pimp-slapped her and punched her in the face," a friend of Rihanna told Us.


Brown then allegedly choked Rihanna and said, "I'm going to kill you," E! News reported. When she slipped into unconsciousness, Brown allegedly fled.


Rihanna was taken to Cedars-Sinai Medical Center. Brown later turned himself in and was charged with making a criminal threat. He was released on $50,000 bail. Both canceled their appearances at the awards show and later events.


WAKS-FM, a Cleveland-area radio station, has stopped playing Brown's music until the allegations are resolved; so, too, have stations in

Pittsburgh and Indianapolis.


Police handed the case over to the LA County prosecutor's office, which sent it back yesterday for further investigation.


Jay-Z has long been protective of Rihanna, the 20-year-old Barbadian beauty he helped make a star.


In 2007, Rihanna - whose song "Umbrella" was burning up the charts - acknowledged that Jay-Z had to give the OK before any guy would approach her.


"I just found out from a mutual friend that guys will talk to Jay first before they try to approach me," Rihanna told People magazine. "He's very protective. Jay has my best interests in mind.


"If it's a good guy, I know Jay won't shut him down. But if he's not, Jay will be, like, 'No, no, no.' "

[coyoteblack]

Okay when you boil it damn there is a double standard... Men real men should just walk away(truth is its hard to be a real man and back down) I have seen some cases where it is hard for man to back down especially when he is being assaulted. Truthfully there are men battered by their wives, who are caught in a catch twenty two damn if you don't and jailed if you do..
Me I have snatched my wife up for laying her hands on me(I didn't strike her, shake her or slam her down to any surface just picked her up and sat her down) that is as close as I have come to laying my hands on any woman... She never slapped me again after that. Don't put your hands on me And I won't lay my hands on you... I have a problem with any person laying their hands on me ... Anger is a Muther of beast, in a rage people will do stupid things..... A man shouldn't have to result to violence of any kind unless backed in an inescapable situation then things change...

We have become a culture where a woman beating up or beating down a man is consider acceptable because he is a man... Here is the reality check if you are forced to defend yourself then laying your hands on that woman is alright in my book.. Now on the other hand to maliciously harm or abuse that woman is no reason to do so, you are a man now act like one... Verbal abuse or mocking is no reason, only when bodily harm or violence that will mane you or kill you is acceptable in my book..

here is something to think about...
"For centuries, women have been stereotyped as the passive victims of violence and aggression. Yet experts are now warning that record numbers of men are being physically abused by their stressed- out wives and girlfriends.
New figures show that the number of calls to domestic violence helplines from male victims has more than doubled over the past five years. And now one of the world's leading feminist journals will investigate the issue of male abuse for the first time in its history: the Psychology of Women Quarterly will devote a whole edition to research on violent women and their behaviour towards men."
REFERENCES EXAMINING ASSAULTS BY WOMEN ON THEIR SPOUSES OR MALE PARTNERS:
AN ANNOTATED BIBLIOGRAPHY

Martin S. Fiebert
Department of Psychology
California State University, Long Beach

Last updated: September 2008


SUMMARY: This bibliography examines 246 scholarly investigations: 187 empirical studies and 59 reviews and/or analyses, which demonstrate that women are as physically aggressive, or more aggressive, than men in their relationships with their spouses or male partners. The aggregate sample size in the reviewed studies exceeds 237,750.
here is more http://www.csulb.edu/~mfiebert/assault.htm (http://www.csulb.edu/%7Emfiebert/assault.htm)


What Chris Brown has done is uncalled for regardless if the rumors are true. He should have been a man and just walked away on that one......

[Razor_Reigns]

rumors are RUNNIN WILD on this, i done heard everything from "she gave him herpes" (which is obviously BS) to "she always beats on him, and one day she popped him in the balls and he just snapped"
the truth (and the pics) will come out b4 long tho ("classified" info always does lol)


Herpes? Real talk, I probably would've whooped her ass for that, I can't lie :lol: the only endorsment deals he'd get if that's true is with Valtrex :laugh:

but seriously though his career is nowhere near over, as long as there are 14 y/olds that still consider Chris Brown their BabyDaddy/Husband he'll be able to bounce back

[123]

chris brown a "WALKING DEAD MAN" according to JAY-Z's people

NY POST:

Chris Brown's got 99 problems - and Jay-Z's a big one.


The hip-hop powerhouse, who rapped "99 Problems," was enraged when he heard that Brown allegedly beat up Rihanna, the R&B star whom Jay-Z discovered and mentored.

"He hit the roof," a source close to him told Us Weekly. "Chris is a walking dead man. He messed with the wrong crew."



:veryshocked: oh snap, I almost forgot about Jigga's relationship with Rihanna. That totally slipped my mind...

Damn Christopher...

[Queeny]

ive hit my boyfriend. more than once :(

[coyoteblack]

ive hit my boyfriend. more than once :( shame on you........:shame:

[rell]

the only endorsment deals he'd get if that's true is with Valtrex :laugh:
:lmao:

[Queeny]

shame on you........:shame:

i know. im not proud of it but i did. i never hit him in the face though. I hit him once on his head :( and once i slapped his stomach.... cus i KNOW if i ever slap him ill get slapped right back lol

[rell]

cus i KNOW if i ever slap him ill get slapped right back lol

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XiwXb26mloQ
like that?

[Queeny]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XiwXb26mloQ
like that?

LMFAO

[coyoteblack]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XiwXb26mloQ
like that?
Damn......... that was anger and its unconscionable reaction... That was messed up .......

LMFAO
:iagree:

[Razor_Reigns]

ive hit my boyfriend. more than once :(

I never figured you for the type luv :lol:

[Queeny]

I never figured you for the type luv :lol:

ah God knows im not the type. But this man can push ANYONE's limits. Grrrrr lol :no::no:

[coyoteblack]

ah God knows im not the type. But this man can push ANYONE's limits. Grrrrr lol :no::no::croc:

[Queeny]

:croc:

:( :(

[WhiteGtz]

I'm pretty sure Rihanna didn't deserve to get hit, let alone beat down. I won't, however, act like there isn't a situation in which a woman wouldn't get hands put on her, though. It would be an extreme situation, but it could happen.

[coyoteblack]

:( :(don't be sad.... my wife says I get on her nerves everyday..... So she has this nerf gun she shoots me with when she can't stand me anymore....... I've been shot plenty of times..

[Lovely]

I just think that this is sad

[Juss]

I Have Never Hit A girl And I Pray That I Never Have To

The Only Situation That Would Make Me Strike A Woman Is If The Woman Is Harming One Of My Family Members...

For Example... If A Girl Is Harming My Sister, Mother, Grandmothers, or Aunts... I'll Knock Her Ass Out (Say What You Want About Me I'm Just Being Honest)

If One Of My Male Family Members Isn't Able To Defend Or Protect Himself And A girl Is Harming Him.... I'll Knock Her Ass Out :nod:

Those Are The Only Circumstances ThatWould Make Me Hit a Woman :nod:

What Chris Brown Did Was Wrong... We All Have Our Demons And We Now Know What One Of His Is... But I'm Not A Judge And I'm No Better Than Him So On That Note... :paper:

[toa]

That ain't cool. Even if they're some idiots/ppl you disagreed with, you shouldn't wish ill will on other people they care about...
Well, according to the posts I reacted to, they should be able to beat on my wife or sisters or daughter if she acts like crazy bitch with an axe to grind. One dude suggested that his attack wasn't vicious enough. But what really pissed me off is the fact that the first reaction by a lot of people here was to try to justify what he did. HE BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF A 20 YEAR-OLD GIRL THAT WEIGHS 135 POUNDS. For me, the visceral reaction should be revulsion, not posting jokes or coming up with completely unrelated scenarios justifying beating on a woman.

And if you can't dismiss the physical attacks of a female without beating her like bitch ass Chris Brown did, you might want to hit the weight room. I have been in that situation twice. What did I do? I grabbed her hands, told her "calm the fuck down," and left the scene. One time, I left the girl in my own apartment.

Maybe it's because I have three younger sisters. Maybe it's my black militancy. But I hate to see one of my black women treated like that. Unless she has a weapon, it should never come to that.

[toa]

And that's just how I feel.

[123]

Well, according to the posts I reacted to, they should be able to beat on my wife or sisters or daughter if she acts like crazy bitch with an axe to grind. One dude suggested that his attack wasn't vicious enough. But what really pissed me off is the fact that the first reaction by a lot of people here was to try to justify what he did. HE BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF A 20 YEAR-OLD GIRL THAT WEIGHS 135 POUNDS. For me, the visceral reaction should be revulsion, not posting jokes or coming up with completely unrelated scenarios justifying beating on a woman.

And if you can't dismiss the physical attacks of a female without beating her like bitch ass Chris Brown did, you might want to hit the weight room. I have been in that situation twice. What did I do? I grabbed her hands, told her "calm the fuck down," and left the scene. One time, I left the girl in my own apartment.

Maybe it's because I have three younger sisters. Maybe it's my black militancy. But I hate to see one of my black women treated like that. Unless she has a weapon, it should never come to that.

And I agree 100%...It's a personal preference I have bruh, don't take it personal. I'm in a stage in my life where I' tryna love my enemies and those who offend me...that's another story...but I alluded to the same thing. There's nothing Rihanna could have done, physically or verbally, to deserve that. The 'rumors' are starting to sound more and more true. I'm waiting to hear the facts before I decide I feel about this...

I'm with you, I got a sister (a fan of his), a mother, aunts and cousins, so I feel you. I think it's a thing against us blacks. I'm watching the news and already after droppin' the Callie thing and yet another little white girl gettin' snatched up by her own family. Let Jessica Simpson or Reese Witherspoon or some other white women get beat; there wouldn't be any jokes. I've seen Rihanna joke all over the 'net on black ran sites. :no: We just don't respect our women enough, nor you we value them as much as they deserve. Rihanna's black, so ignorant ppl assume she did something to deserve an assualt...

[toa]

Let Jessica Simpson or Reese Witherspoon or some other white women get beat; there wouldn't be any jokes. I've seen Rihanna joke all over the 'net on black ran sites. :no: We just don't respect our women enough, nor you we value them as much as they deserve. Rihanna's black, so ignorant ppl assume she did something to deserve an assualt...
Post of the year.

[Queeny]

Personally I'm amazed that this is actually REAL and TRUE. Initially I thought it was some big joke and he didnt really assault her or hit he he probably just pushed her or slapped her and it was blown out of proportion but now it's gotten to (litereally) an assault level and to the point where Chris' career is struggling....it's insane how this is working out now.

Men shouldnt hit women. Just as women shouldnt hit men. I hit my bf, and i've always said that if i slap him he can slap me back or hit me back or whtever the case may be. But realistically speaking- my force and his force are completely different. My slap to him is probably like a little kids. His slap to me could cause some serious damage cus he hits hard.... and that applies to MOST situations.

So really and trully WHAT could Rihanna have done to be beat down like this?? Does Chris just have serious anger issues?? That's bizarre.

[Veezal]

Not saying what he did was justified but not 1 man in this thread who has or have had a woman and they didn't at 1 point wanna bash her damn skull in. Obviously no one has done it but a woman can press you to a point where you might wanna go that route. Women, yall know what I'm talking about. Taking it to a point where if a man reacts he goes from being the victim to being a monster who whips on his lady.

[Rambo]

Personally I'm amazed that this is actually REAL and TRUE. Initially I thought it was some big joke and he didnt really assault her or hit he he probably just pushed her or slapped her and it was blown out of proportion but now it's gotten to (litereally) an assault level and to the point where Chris' career is struggling....it's insane how this is working out now.

Men shouldnt hit women. Just as women shouldnt hit men. I hit my bf, and i've always said that if i slap him he can slap me back or hit me back or whtever the case may be. But realistically speaking- my force and his force are completely different. My slap to him is probably like a little kids. His slap to me could cause some serious damage cus he hits hard.... and that applies to MOST situations.

So really and trully WHAT could Rihanna have done to be beat down like this?? Does Chris just have serious anger issues?? That's bizarre.
nobody knows the truth but God, Chris, and Rihanna

[Hour Of Chaos]

It's funny how a lot of the same people who are outraged by what Chris Brown did is also hoping that this young man goes to prison and violently has his manhood taken.

[Hour Of Chaos]

Not saying what he did was justified but not 1 man in this thread who has or have had a woman and they didn't at 1 point wanna bash her damn skull in. Obviously no one has done it but a woman can press you to a point where you might wanna go that route. Women, yall know what I'm talking about. Taking it to a point where if a man reacts he goes from being the victim to being a monster who whips on his lady.


I'm married to a crazy-ass Trini lady who keeps a machete, that her dad gave her, in the garage just to correct a nigg@ in case I should get outta line so that's one reason why I don't put my hands on my woman plus I wasn't raised like that.

Not to say that's it's justified but Chris Brown was raised in a house where he saw his mother abused on almost a daily basis and it's understandable how he can believe that's how a man is supposed to behave. So before we're so ready to throw this young brotha in a cave and forget him for one mistake, let's first see that he gets some help for whatever he's dealing with

[Bishop]

Pictures are doctored all the time. A co-worked emailed this to me yesterday.

If this is a true pic (and it seems to be), damn! That's all I can say.

http://img144.imagevenue.com/loc485/th_68782_Rihanna_122_485lo.jpg

Unfortunately Chris Bown will bounce back - R. Kelly did! Amazing.

[Q-ROCK]

If he did it then put his lil ass in prison.:no:

[Mike82]

I'm married to a crazy-ass Trini lady who keeps a machete, that her dad gave her, in the garage just to correct a nigg@ in case I should get outta line so that's one reason why I don't put my hands on my woman plus I wasn't raised like that.

Not to say that's it's justified but Chris Brown was raised in a house where he saw his mother abused on almost a daily basis and it's understandable how he can believe that's how a man is supposed to behave. So before we're so ready to throw this young brotha in a cave and forget him for one mistake, let's first see that he gets some help for whatever he's dealing with

There are plenty of ways you can understand why criminals do the things they do, but there is a reason why people go to jail in the first place. Jails are correctional facilities that hold criminals until they feel they can actually be released released without presenting a risk to society. Also his father beat his mother on a regular basis, wouldn't he do everything in his power not to end up like his old man?

[Snipes]

Wow, so not only is his music sh*t and balnd but he seems like a f**king c**t as well.

I'd never condone anything like this. By the details I've heard it sounds like he mauled her, which is just cowardly.

[Snipes]

There are plenty of ways you can understand why criminals do the things they do, but there is a reason why people go to jail in the first place. Jails are correctional facilities that hold criminals until they feel they can actually be released released without presenting a risk to society. Also his father beat his mother on a regular basis, wouldn't he do everything in his power not to end up like his old man?


Jails are MEANT to be correctional facilities, but they're not.

They're just cages to keep people in. There isnt any system in place for people to actually be helped while in jail to change, to maek their term worthwhile for them once they leave. Its just a case of, lock em up and leave.

[gigi]

The first thing I thought when I heard this story was "What did Rihanna do". Honestly. But whatever it was he should have just walked away...

[Mike82]

Jails are MEANT to be correctional facilities, but they're not.

They're just cages to keep people in. There isnt any system in place for people to actually be helped while in jail to change, to maek their term worthwhile for them once they leave. Its just a case of, lock em up and leave.

True. I think the big problem is too many damn prisoners and not enough cops to regulate the prisons.

[Rashad]

Rihanna -- The Face of a Battered Woman (http://www.tmz.com/2009/02/19/rihanna-photo-face-beating/)
http://sixpop.com/images/29738697.jpg (http://sixpop.com/)
http://www.tmz.com/2009/02/19/rihanna-photo-face-beating/

[ja_shotta]

http://www.mediatakeout.com/2009/30764-rihannas_abuse_pics.html

yeah I just got that pic too...

[Mike82]

WOW!

[Queeny]

That is just so so so sad. No woman deserves taht kind of beating unless she murdered your mom, dad, sister, brother or child. And I'm sure she didnt do ANY of those to Chris. That guy fucked himself SO bad after that. I just hope she's doing ok. That's ridiculous.

[Queeny]

PS- I hope that asshole really and truly pays for this shit. That's just RIDICULOUS!

[®eese]

PS- I hope that asshole really and truly pays for this shit. That's just RIDICULOUS!
sad but true he will recover with his young fan base,those girls will ride and die for chris.

[BB33]

sad but true he will recover with his young fan base,those girls will ride and die for chris.

You're right. All them 106th & Park chicks will act like this never happened. Personally I never liked his music. He can sing, but I never wanted to listen to his shit cause I'm too old for his music. Now if I was R. Kelly & going on a date with one if my 19 year old friends.............

I'm just curious how they're going to go about this case cause ever since O.J. DV cases in Cali do not go in favor of the man, EVEN if the woman beat his ass & the dude was the one who called the cops. That n***a's assed out for real.

[LakerFan]

http://i123.photobucket.com/albums/o297/livin_off_xperience/2399749731_a70a411a6f_o.gif

[Mero]

Nah...that's really bad. There has to be at least 10 different bruises there hence 10 different slaps/punches. Chris has been bulking up in the gym aswell.

[LukeKage]

http://i123.photobucket.com/albums/o297/livin_off_xperience/2399749731_a70a411a6f_o.gif

DAMN

[Razor_Reigns]

Fuck Right?

[123]

:no: @ that picture...

It wasn't even supposed to be leaked. Nuthin is sacride in the internet age...

I hope whoever released it gets disciplined to the fullness extent of the law...

[Queeny]

sad but true he will recover with his young fan base,those girls will ride and die for chris.

Sad but true. These young women who love Chris off will recover and go on like nothing happened. Sadly- that just goes to show that these young women don't seem to value themselves and each other at ALL nowadays. It's a shame.

[WhiteGtz]

In jail, he's gonna be the pie.

[Hour Of Chaos]

I wanna know the whole story because I don't believe dude just Kirked the fuck out and did that shit for nothing.

I've been hearing stories that she gave him herpes.

[Queeny]

I wanna know the whole story because I don't believe dude just Kirked the fuck out and did that shit for nothing.

I've been hearing stories that she gave him herpes.

Of course he didnt just up and decide to beat her out of nowhere and for nothing. She did something to irritate him. But the fact remains that under NO circumstance is he justified for beating her to that point. Becuase if we justify Chris for this- we can simply say that it's always the chicks fault for getting beat cus she did SOMETHING. Everyone does something wrong at one point or another and beating the shit out of the person is NOT the answer at all.

& I dont know about the herpes thing........

[collegedropout]

Has anyone seen Chris Brown since this incident?
I know he released a statement to the public, but has he shown his face?

[Queeny]

II highly doubt the herpes rumor is actually true..... here's a link that states that (according to Rihanna) it started over a booty call text msg.

http://www.nydailynews.com/gossip/2009/02/10/2009-02-10_rihanna__chris_brown_fight_started_over_.html

[Queeny]

ANOTHER news article I read said that Rihanna feels bad bc she still loves him and is concerned with how this and jail time might affect Chris' career.... why are women so naive? Just why?? The man beat her and she's concerned with HIS CAREER?? Fuck his career! He screwed his own career....

& appearantly it wasnt the first time that he abused her.....

http://www.nydailynews.com/gossip/2009/02/12/2009-02-12_not_the_first_time_chris_brown_abused_me.html

[Hanzo]

:no: @ that picture...

It wasn't even supposed to be leaked. Nuthin is sacride in the internet age...

I hope whoever released it gets disciplined to the fullness extent of the law...

The LAPD sold the picture to a tabloid and apparently for a hefty price. They will never find the person in the department that sold the photo and of course the tabloid (TMZ is the tabloid that released the photo) will never tell who the person was in the department that sold the photo to them. I agree with you 123 it is really sad when people sworn to protect us are profiting from information that is a part of a criminal investigation. They are potentially hurting their own investigation by doing this.

[sLam]

Real Talk: IF A WOMAN IS MAN ENOUGH TO HIT A MAN...SHE BETTER BE MAN ENOUGH TO GET HIT BY A MAN!

Just like everyone else, I don't know the details behind the Rihanna & Chris incident but to say a man should never ever hit a woman is just comical. Who as a person deserves to be physically assaulted and not have the right to defend themself? Some people claim it's not very "manly" to hit a woman. Ok, someone please tell me when during the history of man-kind has it ever been considered "manly" for a man to get his ass beat by a woman!! I have yet to meet a man or woman who saw a man get his ass beat by a woman and thought he was "manly".

You cannot confuse a woman beater with a man who hit a woman back. Why do people act like women shouldn't have to control their anger/temper just like men?? If you get angry and hit somebody there are consequences for that action and in my mind you have just given consent for that person to hit you back! No REAL WOMAN goes around physically attacking men! A woman that doesn't hit men doesn't get hit by "men". She can only be hit by a punkass woman beater who will get his when it's all said and done.

I'll tell you this much...I've seen a lot of women get beatdown by men (some of them deserved it...some didn't) but the WORST beating I've ever seen a woman take came from ANOTHER WOMAN! This chick was outside of her ex-boyfriends krib fucking up his car and he caught her. He was going to beat the shit out of her but his SISTER was at his house at the time and decided to handle it for him. His sister beat that woman within an inch of her life. She ripped chunks of hair off her head, slammed her face into the street multiple times, stomped her, hit her with rocks and shit,...just completely FUCKED HER UP! He actually had to pull his sister off that chick because he felt sorry for ol' girl. Now you tell me...do you feel any better that she was beaten by another woman even though this chick now has permanent scars and had to go through so much pain? At least HE didn't hit her right? It's all good as long as the beating comes from the same gender? Hell, she deserved it?!?? Truth be told, if his sister wasn't there and he was the one that hit her...I firmly believe he would NOT have done as much damage to her as his sister did! But many would consider him "un-manly" and a "woman beater" if he touched her. Yeah ok, WHATEVER!

If that picture of Rihanna's battered face was the result of a beating that came from a female friend of Chris who he had beat her so he wouldn't be considered a "woman beater" would you feel better?

My point is simply that nobody should be hitting anybody! I have a hard time feeling sorry for anyone who starts a physical confrontation and gets their ass beat. I don't care what gender that person is.

[coyoteblack]

Real Talk: IF A WOMAN IS MAN ENOUGH TO HIT A MAN...SHE BETTER BE MAN ENOUGH TO GET HIT BY A MAN!

Just like everyone else, I don't know the details behind the Rihanna & Chris incident but to say a man should never ever hit a woman is just comical. Who as a person deserves to be physically assaulted and not have the right to defend themself? Some people claim it's not very "manly" to hit a woman. Ok, someone please tell me when during the history of man-kind has it ever been considered "manly" for a man to get his ass beat by a woman!! I have yet to meet a man or woman who saw a man get his ass beat by a woman and thought he was "manly".

You cannot confuse a woman beater with a man who hit a woman back. Why do people act like women shouldn't have to control their anger/temper just like men?? If you get angry and hit somebody there are consequences for that action and in my mind you have just given consent for that person to hit you back! No REAL WOMAN goes around physically attacking men! A woman that doesn't hit men doesn't get hit by "men". She can only be hit by a punkass woman beater who will get his when it's all said and done.

I'll tell you this much...I've seen a lot of women get beatdown by men (some of them deserved it...some didn't) but the WORST beating I've ever seen a woman take came from ANOTHER WOMAN! This chick was outside of her ex-boyfriends krib fucking up his car and he caught her. He was going to beat the shit out of her but his SISTER was at his house at the time and decided to handle it for him. His sister beat that woman within an inch of her life. She ripped chunks of hair off her head, slammed her face into the street multiple times, stomped her, hit her with rocks and shit,...just completely FUCKED HER UP! He actually had to pull his sister off that chick because he felt sorry for ol' girl. Now you tell me...do you feel any better that she was beaten by another woman even though this chick now has permanent scars and had to go through so much pain? At least HE didn't hit her right? It's all good as long as the beating comes from the same gender? Hell, she deserved it?!?? Truth be told, if his sister wasn't there and he was the one that hit her...I firmly believe he would NOT have done as much damage to her as his sister did! But many would consider him "un-manly" and a "woman beater" if he touched her. Yeah ok, WHATEVER!

If that picture of Rihanna's battered face was the result of a beating that came from a female friend of Chris who he had beat her so he wouldn't be considered a "woman beater" would you feel better?

My point is simply that nobody should be hitting anybody! I have a hard time feeling sorry for anyone who starts a physical confrontation and gets their ass beat. I don't care what gender that person is.Dude where have you been!?!

[sLam]

Dude where have you been!?!

Still in Iraq. I moved to a different base for a while and the "cutiecentral" domain was blocked there.

[coyoteblack]

Still in Iraq. I moved to a different base for a while and the "cutiecentral" domain was blocked there.I was starting to wonder What the hell happened . Nice to know you are safe... prayers out to you.

[Hanzo]

Real Talk: IF A WOMAN IS MAN ENOUGH TO HIT A MAN...SHE BETTER BE MAN ENOUGH TO GET HIT BY A MAN!

Just like everyone else, I don't know the details behind the Rihanna & Chris incident but to say a man should never ever hit a woman is just comical. Who as a person deserves to be physically assaulted and not have the right to defend themself? Some people claim it's not very "manly" to hit a woman. Ok, someone please tell me when during the history of man-kind has it ever been considered "manly" for a man to get his ass beat by a woman!! I have yet to meet a man or woman who saw a man get his ass beat by a woman and thought he was "manly".

You cannot confuse a woman beater with a man who hit a woman back. Why do people act like women shouldn't have to control their anger/temper just like men?? If you get angry and hit somebody there are consequences for that action and in my mind you have just given consent for that person to hit you back! No REAL WOMAN goes around physically attacking men! A woman that doesn't hit men doesn't get hit by "men". She can only be hit by a punkass woman beater who will get his when it's all said and done.

I'll tell you this much...I've seen a lot of women get beatdown by men (some of them deserved it...some didn't) but the WORST beating I've ever seen a woman take came from ANOTHER WOMAN! This chick was outside of her ex-boyfriends krib fucking up his car and he caught her. He was going to beat the shit out of her but his SISTER was at his house at the time and decided to handle it for him. His sister beat that woman within an inch of her life. She ripped chunks of hair off her head, slammed her face into the street multiple times, stomped her, hit her with rocks and shit,...just completely FUCKED HER UP! He actually had to pull his sister off that chick because he felt sorry for ol' girl. Now you tell me...do you feel any better that she was beaten by another woman even though this chick now has permanent scars and had to go through so much pain? At least HE didn't hit her right? It's all good as long as the beating comes from the same gender? Hell, she deserved it?!?? Truth be told, if his sister wasn't there and he was the one that hit her...I firmly believe he would NOT have done as much damage to her as his sister did! But many would consider him "un-manly" and a "woman beater" if he touched her. Yeah ok, WHATEVER!

If that picture of Rihanna's battered face was the result of a beating that came from a female friend of Chris who he had beat her so he wouldn't be considered a "woman beater" would you feel better?

My point is simply that nobody should be hitting anybody! I have a hard time feeling sorry for anyone who starts a physical confrontation and gets their ass beat. I don't care what gender that person is.

Point Taken. There is a double standard when it comes to the domestic violence issue. If a dude gets abused by a female that he is in a relationship with then he gets ridiculed, but if a man abuses a woman then he is punished more harshly than he would've been punished if he had assaulted another man. Given all that... dawg, for the most part men are physically more stronger than most women. This is just basic human anatomy. I agree with you that all violence should be considered unacceptable, but their is a difference between defense and abuse. More often than not a man can very easily defend himself from being abused by a woman. There is NO REASON for a man physically able to defend himself from being assaulted by a woman to retaliate with violence. It is completely unacceptable I'm sorry.

[WhiteGtz]

Real Talk: IF A WOMAN IS MAN ENOUGH TO HIT A MAN...SHE BETTER BE MAN ENOUGH TO GET HIT BY A MAN!

Just like everyone else, I don't know the details behind the Rihanna & Chris incident but to say a man should never ever hit a woman is just comical. Who as a person deserves to be physically assaulted and not have the right to defend themself? Some people claim it's not very "manly" to hit a woman. Ok, someone please tell me when during the history of man-kind has it ever been considered "manly" for a man to get his ass beat by a woman!! I have yet to meet a man or woman who saw a man get his ass beat by a woman and thought he was "manly".

You cannot confuse a woman beater with a man who hit a woman back. Why do people act like women shouldn't have to control their anger/temper just like men?? If you get angry and hit somebody there are consequences for that action and in my mind you have just given consent for that person to hit you back! No REAL WOMAN goes around physically attacking men! A woman that doesn't hit men doesn't get hit by "men". She can only be hit by a punkass woman beater who will get his when it's all said and done.

I'll tell you this much...I've seen a lot of women get beatdown by men (some of them deserved it...some didn't) but the WORST beating I've ever seen a woman take came from ANOTHER WOMAN! This chick was outside of her ex-boyfriends krib fucking up his car and he caught her. He was going to beat the shit out of her but his SISTER was at his house at the time and decided to handle it for him. His sister beat that woman within an inch of her life. She ripped chunks of hair off her head, slammed her face into the street multiple times, stomped her, hit her with rocks and shit,...just completely FUCKED HER UP! He actually had to pull his sister off that chick because he felt sorry for ol' girl. Now you tell me...do you feel any better that she was beaten by another woman even though this chick now has permanent scars and had to go through so much pain? At least HE didn't hit her right? It's all good as long as the beating comes from the same gender? Hell, she deserved it?!?? Truth be told, if his sister wasn't there and he was the one that hit her...I firmly believe he would NOT have done as much damage to her as his sister did! But many would consider him "un-manly" and a "woman beater" if he touched her. Yeah ok, WHATEVER!

If that picture of Rihanna's battered face was the result of a beating that came from a female friend of Chris who he had beat her so he wouldn't be considered a "woman beater" would you feel better?

My point is simply that nobody should be hitting anybody! I have a hard time feeling sorry for anyone who starts a physical confrontation and gets their ass beat. I don't care what gender that person is.

Well put. I was trying to convey this point, but I'm a man of few words.

[sLam]

Point Taken. There is a double standard when it comes to the domestic violence issue. If a dude gets abused by a female that he is in a relationship with then he gets ridiculed, but if a man abuses a woman then he is punished more harshly than he would've been punished if he had assaulted another man. Given all that... dawg, for the most part men are physically more stronger than most women. This is just basic human anatomy. I agree with you that all violence should be considered unacceptable, but their is a difference between defense and abuse. More often than not a man can very easily defend himself from being abused by a woman. There is NO REASON for a man physically able to defend himself from being assaulted by a woman to retaliate with violence. It is completely unacceptable I'm sorry.

I hear what you're saying. Obviously men are stronger than women but that does not give women a right to hit men and not expect to get hit back. Just like you said "it's basic human anatomy" we all know the differences in male & female strength! So why do you think a woman would even start a physical altercation with a man in the first place? You ever notice the same women who are quick to hit a man are not so quick to hit another female who's bigger, stronger, crazier, and more aggressive than they are? Hhhmm I wonder why that is :think: LOL, they know there's no double-standard discouraging another female from hitting her back. It's REAL easy to hit a person that you don't think can hit you back. Because of their perceived protection against men, these women view men as human punching bags.

The statement "men are stronger than women" really isn't a good defense on this subject. What if a smaller/weaker man hits you? Will you not hit him back as well? You're just going to try to restrain him? If you say it's ok to hit a man back even if he's smaller, but you can't hit any woman back, then you must not view women as equals.

One last thing...if you're always defensive in regards to being attacked by a woman...there's nothing discouraging her from continuing her violence towards you. That's why you see "guys" on talk shows that get their ass beat daily by their women. Because they are always defensive...they just take the blows or try to hold her. If she never faces any consequences for her violence she'll happily continue. Not to mention, she will not respect you as a man. Like I said before, it's not masculine for a man to get beaten by a woman. A woman will not respect a man that allows that to happen.

If you could walk up and punch a lion in the mouth and the lion just curled up into a fetal position and waited until you were done hitting it...would you still have respect for lions? Would you still view lions as the king of the jungle? Now if the lion mauled your ass the moment you even looked like you were about to hit it...you think you'd try and hit it again? RESPECT

[Mike82]

I hear what you're saying. Obviously men are stronger than women but that does not give women a right to hit men and not expect to get hit back. Just like you said "it's basic human anatomy" we all know the differences in male & female strength! So why do you think a woman would even start a physical altercation with a man in the first place? You ever notice the same women who are quick to hit a man are not so quick to hit another female who's bigger, stronger, crazier, and more aggressive than they are? Hhhmm I wonder why that is :think: LOL, they know there's no double-standard discouraging another female from hitting her back. It's REAL easy to hit a person that you don't think can hit you back. Because of their perceived protection against men, these women view men as human punching bags.

The statement "men are stronger than women" really isn't a good defense on this subject. What if a smaller/weaker man hits you? Will you not hit him back as well? You're just going to try to restrain him? If you say it's ok to hit a man back even if he's smaller, but you can't hit any woman back, then you must not view women as equals.

One last thing...if you're always defensive in regards to being attacked by a woman...there's nothing discouraging her from continuing her violence towards you. That's why you see "guys" on talk shows that get their ass beat daily by their women. Because they are always defensive...they just take the blows or try to hold her. If she never faces any consequences for her violence she'll happily continue. Not to mention, she will not respect you as a man. Like I said before, it's not masculine for a man to get beaten by a woman. A woman will not respect a man that allows that to happen.

If you could walk up and punch a lion in the mouth and the lion just curled up into a fetal position and waited until you were done hitting it...would you still have respect for lions? Would you still view lions as the king of the jungle? Now if the lion mauled your ass the moment you even looked like you were about to hit it...you think you'd try and hit it again? RESPECT

I think it all has to do with how people where raised and where taught to believe was right or wrong. I would never hit my mother, so I hold myself to that standard that I would never hit a woman unless its self defense.

As far as guys getting beat by their girlfriends, you have every right to defend yourself by any means necessary. Which also means, you would only use the minimal amount of force required, unless your life is in immediate danger. I said this before in one of my earlier posts.

[sLam]

I think it all has to do with how people where raised and where taught to believe was right or wrong. I would never hit my mother, so I hold myself to that standard that I would never hit a woman unless its self defense.

As far as guys getting beat by their girlfriends, you have every right to defend yourself by any means necessary. Which also means, you would only use the minimal amount of force required, unless your life is in immediate danger. I said this before in one of my earlier posts.

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[Queeny]

Real Talk: IF A WOMAN IS MAN ENOUGH TO HIT A MAN...SHE BETTER BE MAN ENOUGH TO GET HIT BY A MAN!

Just like everyone else, I don't know the details behind the Rihanna & Chris incident but to say a man should never ever hit a woman is just comical. Who as a person deserves to be physically assaulted and not have the right to defend themself? Some people claim it's not very "manly" to hit a woman. Ok, someone please tell me when during the history of man-kind has it ever been considered "manly" for a man to get his ass beat by a woman!! I have yet to meet a man or woman who saw a man get his ass beat by a woman and thought he was "manly".

You cannot confuse a woman beater with a man who hit a woman back. Why do people act like women shouldn't have to control their anger/temper just like men?? If you get angry and hit somebody there are consequences for that action and in my mind you have just given consent for that person to hit you back! No REAL WOMAN goes around physically attacking men! A woman that doesn't hit men doesn't get hit by "men". She can only be hit by a punkass woman beater who will get his when it's all said and done.

I'll tell you this much...I've seen a lot of women get beatdown by men (some of them deserved it...some didn't) but the WORST beating I've ever seen a woman take came from ANOTHER WOMAN! This chick was outside of her ex-boyfriends krib fucking up his car and he caught her. He was going to beat the shit out of her but his SISTER was at his house at the time and decided to handle it for him. His sister beat that woman within an inch of her life. She ripped chunks of hair off her head, slammed her face into the street multiple times, stomped her, hit her with rocks and shit,...just completely FUCKED HER UP! He actually had to pull his sister off that chick because he felt sorry for ol' girl. Now you tell me...do you feel any better that she was beaten by another woman even though this chick now has permanent scars and had to go through so much pain? At least HE didn't hit her right? It's all good as long as the beating comes from the same gender? Hell, she deserved it?!?? Truth be told, if his sister wasn't there and he was the one that hit her...I firmly believe he would NOT have done as much damage to her as his sister did! But many would consider him "un-manly" and a "woman beater" if he touched her. Yeah ok, WHATEVER!

If that picture of Rihanna's battered face was the result of a beating that came from a female friend of Chris who he had beat her so he wouldn't be considered a "woman beater" would you feel better?

My point is simply that nobody should be hitting anybody! I have a hard time feeling sorry for anyone who starts a physical confrontation and gets their ass beat. I don't care what gender that person is.

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I wish I could argue but I cant. Completely agree.

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[Frank_Whyte]

I here she stared it Wow!!

[Hanzo]

I hear what you're saying. Obviously men are stronger than women but that does not give women a right to hit men and not expect to get hit back. Just like you said "it's basic human anatomy" we all know the differences in male & female strength! So why do you think a woman would even start a physical altercation with a man in the first place? You ever notice the same women who are quick to hit a man are not so quick to hit another female who's bigger, stronger, crazier, and more aggressive than they are? Hhhmm I wonder why that is :think: LOL, they know there's no double-standard discouraging another female from hitting her back. It's REAL easy to hit a person that you don't think can hit you back. Because of their perceived protection against men, these women view men as human punching bags.

The statement "men are stronger than women" really isn't a good defense on this subject. What if a smaller/weaker man hits you? Will you not hit him back as well? You're just going to try to restrain him? If you say it's ok to hit a man back even if he's smaller, but you can't hit any woman back, then you must not view women as equals.

One last thing...if you're always defensive in regards to being attacked by a woman...there's nothing discouraging her from continuing her violence towards you. That's why you see "guys" on talk shows that get their ass beat daily by their women. Because they are always defensive...they just take the blows or try to hold her. If she never faces any consequences for her violence she'll happily continue. Not to mention, she will not respect you as a man. Like I said before, it's not masculine for a man to get beaten by a woman. A woman will not respect a man that allows that to happen.

If you could walk up and punch a lion in the mouth and the lion just curled up into a fetal position and waited until you were done hitting it...would you still have respect for lions? Would you still view lions as the king of the jungle? Now if the lion mauled your ass the moment you even looked like you were about to hit it...you think you'd try and hit it again? RESPECT

I wish I could reply without quoting your entire post, but it was so good I had to. I understand and mostly agree with what you are saying. You killed me with the lion analogy. :lol:

You have every right to feel the way you do, but I just can't agree with hitting a woman under any circumstances. I disagree that violence is the only approach that a man can take to discourage a woman from attacking him. I guess if you are a man in an abusive relationship you can always leave the same way a woman can. Does there have to be "consequences"? Does the violence have to be met with retaliation in kind just for respect. I cannot agree with this sort of logic it does not seem necessary to me.

[coyoteblack]

Damn sLam much needed knowledge.. Welcome back:clap:

[123]

I hear what you're saying. Obviously men are stronger than women but that does not give women a right to hit men and not expect to get hit back. Just like you said "it's basic human anatomy" we all know the differences in male & female strength! So why do you think a woman would even start a physical altercation with a man in the first place? You ever notice the same women who are quick to hit a man are not so quick to hit another female who's bigger, stronger, crazier, and more aggressive than they are? Hhhmm I wonder why that is :think: LOL, they know there's no double-standard discouraging another female from hitting her back. It's REAL easy to hit a person that you don't think can hit you back. Because of their perceived protection against men, these women view men as human punching bags.

The statement "men are stronger than women" really isn't a good defense on this subject. What if a smaller/weaker man hits you? Will you not hit him back as well? You're just going to try to restrain him? If you say it's ok to hit a man back even if he's smaller, but you can't hit any woman back, then you must not view women as equals.

One last thing...if you're always defensive in regards to being attacked by a woman...there's nothing discouraging her from continuing her violence towards you. That's why you see "guys" on talk shows that get their ass beat daily by their women. Because they are always defensive...they just take the blows or try to hold her. If she never faces any consequences for her violence she'll happily continue. Not to mention, she will not respect you as a man. Like I said before, it's not masculine for a man to get beaten by a woman. A woman will not respect a man that allows that to happen.

If you could walk up and punch a lion in the mouth and the lion just curled up into a fetal position and waited until you were done hitting it...would you still have respect for lions? Would you still view lions as the king of the jungle? Now if the lion mauled your ass the moment you even looked like you were about to hit it...you think you'd try and hit it again? RESPECT

I'm gonna have to disagree a bit. RESPECT doesn't come with beating on someone; self defense or not. And self defense has it's limits. Defending yourself is doin enough to discourage your attacker from accosting you any further. If we want to talk about Chris/Rihanni, then NO, he wasn't defending himself cuz her wounds do look like someone was fending their person from her. If we want to talk a REAL MAN, it shouldn't even take more than two strikes to stop a woman...

Either Chris Brown can't fight or he was just beating on her...

Rihanna - 5'7"- 5'8" and 125 lbs
Chris Brown - 5'10" - 6 ft and 180 lbs (he's prolly taller than me, so he should weight a bit like me)

No contest. He shouldn't have had to beat her face in, to defend himself. But I don't know the true story, so I'm not passin' judgement...

[sLam]

I'm gonna have to disagree a bit. RESPECT doesn't come with beating on someone; self defense or not. And self defense has it's limits. Defending yourself is doin enough to discourage your attacker from accosting you any further. If we want to talk about Chris/Rihanni, then NO, he wasn't defending himself cuz her wounds do look like someone was fending their person from her. If we want to talk a REAL MAN, it shouldn't even take more than two strikes to stop a woman...

Either Chris Brown can't fight or he was just beating on her...



No contest. He shouldn't have had to beat her face in, to defend himself. But I don't know the true story, so I'm not passin' judgement...

Respect may not come from beating on someone but allowing someone to beat on you shows a lack of respect for yourself. I agree with Mike82's statement "you would only use the minimal amount of force required". If you're being attacked by a female and make the decision to hit her back...that doesn't mean beat her into a bloody pulp. Best to save your strenght anyway because 9 times out of 10 she's going to run to her brother, father, uncle, etc.:laugh:

[123]

Respect may not come from beating on someone but allowing someone to beat on you shows a lack of respect for yourself. I agree with Mike82's statement "you would only use the minimal amount of force required". If you're being attacked by a female and make the decision to hit her back...that doesn't mean beat her into a bloody pulp. Best to save your strenght anyway because 9 times out of 10 she's going to run to her brother, father, uncle, etc.:laugh:

Now I agree completely. But that pic of her shows he went overboard...