Which one would bother you more?

[Razor_Reigns]

If your significant other's ex was a really successful person, with everything already obtained in life (House, Car, Good Job)

or if their ex was a unsuccessful low life with nothing going for them (Lives with their parents, no car, unemployed, maybe a couple of kids :lol:) ?

[dathill2002]

It's depend on the relationship I had while I was with that ex. If I did my ex grimy then I can't hate for her being successful.

But if she was one who was foul, then I'm not going to lie. I don't like to wish problems on nobody but I'm not going to front like it wouldn't put a smile on my face to know ol' girl did me dirty and now she has 3 kids by three different dudes and strips nights and works at the car wash to make her rent.:nod:

[VitaminJ]

THE 1ST ONE,IF HE WAS A LOW LIFE WITH HIS PARENTS THAT WOULD ACTUALLY MAKE ME HAPPY,LOL. iD BE LIKE THE UPGRADE

[Razor_Reigns]

It's depend on the relationship I had while I was with that ex. If I did my ex grimy then I can't hate for her being successful.

But if she was one who was foul, then I'm not going to lie. I don't like to wish problems on nobody but I'm not going to front like it wouldn't put a smile on my face to know ol' girl did me dirty and now she has 3 kids by three different dudes and strips nights and works at the car wash to make her rent.:nod:


^^^ :lol: I feel you on that, but the ? was concerning the social status, of your current girlfriends Ex Boyfriend, and which would you rather him be?

[sucha_BRAT]

i would definately say NEITHER!! they are of no concern to me.... hell, he wifed me and not them... cant get no higher than that!

[Queeny]

Depends.

If their ex was a lowlife & ESPECIALLY if they were ugly, that means they have no standards & no taste. Also dpeends on how their relationship was. If it was nothing seriuos, I wouldnt care. If it was a serious one though, I'd be concerned.

On the ohter hand, if their ex was successful & all that & I wasnt AS successful that means he really loves me & cares about me :D :D

So I dont know yet. I'll get back to you with a final answer LMFAO!

[Razor_Reigns]

^^^ :lol: ok beautiful keep me posted...

[PrincessKris]

HMMM well if my ex was successful and i havent gotten over him i would be hating it. Only because i would wish to be apart of that successful life with him and i would be thinking about is he going to share his life with another woman, just being real.. but thats only if i havent gotten over him or still love him. or I would try to do better than what he has done.. so i will not have to think about him at all..

If he was unsuccessful and i cared about him i would help him and talk to him. If i didnt care about him i wouldnt pay any attention to him. and keep it moving. and wondered wtf happened.

Hugs and Kisses
Princesskris

[VitaminJ]

ALWAYS LOOKIN FOR THE BETTER DEAL,LOL J/K

[j_da_que]

If he was a bum, I'd question her standards. But I'd still wish that he was a bum.

[Queeny]

Ok I decided. i'd rather their ex was bummy & stupid. Heres why. I am the upgrade. HOWEVER on the other hand I'd be the downgrade & it may come up in an arguement. Some shit like... oh I had such a perfect one why did I leave her for you?? LOL! No thanks.

[BALLA-TONY]

THE 1ST ONE,IF HE WAS A LOW LIFE WITH HIS PARENTS THAT WOULD ACTUALLY MAKE ME HAPPY,LOL. iD BE LIKE THE UPGRADE


haha yea i agree with you J

[dathill2002]

^^^ :lol: I feel you on that, but the ? was concerning the social status, of your current girlfriends Ex Boyfriend, and which would you rather him be?

:laugh:^^^ my bad. that's why I'm in school now to get my learnin's on. but to answer the question, it wouldn't matter to me either way. it would probably annoying as hell if dude was all successful, but at the end of the day ol' girl is with me. So if dude making millions and I got her eating SPAM omelets:biggrin: at the crib, I must be doing something right.

[rell]

If your significant other's ex was a really successful person, with everything already obtained in life (House, Car, Good Job)

or if their ex was a unsuccessful low life with nothing going for them (Lives with their parents, no car, unemployed, maybe a couple of kids :lol:) ?

I gotta go with the first one.

Like was said before, I'm the upgrade, and if we ever go into an argument then I'll just be like "go back to whashisname n live in his mama crib again then!"

[collegedropout]

It wouldn't matter to me.
I deal in the present-tense.

Success is relative. Her ex could have nice cars, a home and what she may perceive to be a high salary, but unless she's a very shallow and materialistic women, that's not very important. In the case that she's very shallow and materialistic, I wouldn't want to be dating her.

On the flip side, the 'unsuccessful' guy that she dated may have been a really nice person or fulfilled some type of need. I'm a secure person, so I could care less about being viewed as an 'upgrade'.

Spiritually, physically and mentally, I do what's necessary to be the best person I can be. I do that on a daily basis... so in my mind, there's no upgrade or downgrade. I'm me. I'm comfortable with whom I am and where I'm going. I know that I'm a very genuine, honest and upright individual. If a female spends the time to find that out, accepts and respects that and loves me... that's all that freakin' matters.

[Razor_Reigns]

It wouldn't matter to me.
I deal in the present-tense.

Success is relative. Her ex could have nice cars, a home and what she may perceive to be a high salary, but unless she's a very shallow and materialistic women, that's not very important. In the case that she's very shallow and materialistic, I wouldn't want to be dating her.

On the flip side, the 'unsuccessful' guy that she dated may have been a really nice person or fulfilled some type of need. I'm a secure person, so I could care less about being viewed as an 'upgrade'.

Spiritually, physically and mentally, I do what's necessary to be the best person I can be. I do that on a daily basis... so in my mind, there's no upgrade or downgrade. I'm me. I'm comfortable with whom I am and where I'm going. I know that I'm a very genuine, honest and upright individual. If a female spends the time to find that out, accepts and respects that and loves me... that's all that freakin' matters.



^^^ :clap::clap::clap:

[Keels]

im extra shallow

shit liek that wouldnt matter to me
i got a job i got a car i live wit my folks but thats by CHOICE!

he could be King of Zamunda

aslong as im the better lay i could careless lls

[SCOTTIEMAC]

i would definately say NEITHER!! they are of no concern to me....

Nuff said right there !!

You'd have to be an insecure person if you were worried about your significant other's ex being a successful dude and you'd also have to be a very shallow person to look down on your significant other's ex if they weren't successful because a lot of us under this economy in the blink of an eye can be livin' back at home with no job.

[Queeny]

ok guys the answer 'nether' is the obvious & easier choice... the question is which would bother you MORE?? Doesnt matter if NONE bother you, the question at hand is which would be worst of the two things you dont care about? LOL.

[dathill2002]

im extra shallow

shit liek that wouldnt matter to me
i got a job i got a car i live wit my folks but thats by CHOICE!

he could be King of Zamunda

aslong as im the better lay i could careless lls

cosign the bolded:nod:

[PrincessKris]

ok guys the answer 'nether' is the obvious & easier choice... the question is which would bother you MORE?? Doesnt matter if NONE bother you, the question at hand is which would be worst of the two things you dont care about? LOL.


DITO!!! DAMNIT!! LOL

HUGS AND KISSES
PRINCESSKRIS

[Razor_Reigns]

ok guys the answer 'nether' is the obvious & easier choice... the question is which would bother you MORE?? Doesnt matter if NONE bother you, the question at hand is which would be worst of the two things you dont care about? LOL.

^^^Thank you, E-Wifey :lovesmily:

[Queeny]

^^^Thank you, E-Wifey :lovesmily:

Anything for you baby ;)

:smilelove:

[PrincessKris]

^^^Thank you, E-Wifey :lovesmily:


WELL HOLD THE HELL ON!!! YOU CHEATING LOL JUST KIDDING AWWW CUTEST E-COUPLE WOO HOO

[Razor_Reigns]

^^^ :lol:

[dathill2002]

^^^^grrrr, I'm hating on this guy right here:pissed:

I need to do some more e-stalking of queeny after looking at those pics again:D

[Queeny]

WELL HOLD THE HELL ON!!! YOU CHEATING LOL JUST KIDDING AWWW CUTEST E-COUPLE WOO HOO

now now PK I love you & all girl, but that was my man from day one. NOW BUZZ OFF lol jk :razz::razz::razz:

[Queeny]

^^^^grrrr, I'm hating on this guy right here:pissed:

I need to do some more e-stalking of queeny after looking at those pics again:D

LOL!

[PrincessKris]

now now PK I love you & all girl, but that was my man from day one. NOW BUZZ OFF lol jk :razz::razz::razz:


I Know I'm his mistress lol ahahah JK LOL BUZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ LOL
HUGS AND KISSES
PRINCESSKRIS

[coyoteblack]

To be honest I wouldn't care about any of it. Life is to short to worry about others.

[Razor_Reigns]

now now PK I love you & all girl, but that was my man from day one. NOW BUZZ OFF lol jk :razz::razz::razz:

I Know I'm his mistress lol ahahah JK LOL BUZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ LOL
HUGS AND KISSES
PRINCESSKRIS


Wow two beautiful women claimin me, dreams do come true :lol:

[PrincessKris]

Wow two beautiful women claimin me, dreams do come true :lol:



LOL AHAHAH YOU DID SAY DREAM RIGHT LOL AHAH JUST KIDDING .. LOVE YOU

HUGS AND KISSES
PRINCESSKRIS

[Queeny]

its ok PK you can be the mistress.. i'm still the wifey :D :D :D hehehehe